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Live-in Lifestyle assistant , Chipping Norton, UK

We are looking for a dynamic, polished and highly organised Household & Lifestyle Assistant to become an integral part of a warm and welcoming private family household near Chipping Norton.

This is an exciting, varied position for a genuinely multi-skilled all-rounder who enjoys being involved across all areas of a private household. No two days will be exactly the same, and the successful candidate will work closely with the principals, providing practical day-to-day support and ensuring their homes and family life run smoothly.

This could particularly suit someone coming from a yachting, chalet, luxury hospitality or private household background who is accustomed to high standards, enjoys variety and is looking to establish themselves in a long-term land-based role.

Duties Outlined not limited to :

  • Working as a trusted part of the household, your responsibilities will include:
  • Wardrobe management, organisation, packing/unpacking and ensuring clothing and personal items are beautifully maintained and organised.
  • Preparing fresh, relaxed family-style meals, light lunches and food preparation as required. You do not need to be a formally trained chef, but you should genuinely enjoy cooking and be confident in the kitchen.
  • Helping to keep the household beautifully presented, organised and guest-ready, working alongside and supporting the wider household team.
  • Maintaining excellent organisation throughout the home, including cupboards, wardrobes, household supplies and general presentation.
  • Assisting with interiors and presentation, with a natural eye for detail and an appreciation for creating an inviting home.
  • Acting as a host/hostess, meeting and greeting guests and helping ensure they are looked after during their stay.
  • Supporting with entertaining, table presentation and informal family gatherings.
  • Approximately one evening per week, providing support to the family’s 14-year-old daughter at a property in Oxford, including preparing dinner and being a responsible, reassuring presence.
  • Running errands, shopping and assisting with general household requirements.
  • Providing flexible support to the principals wherever needed.

About You

  • We are looking for someone who is naturally energetic, capable and proactive a person who sees what needs doing and gets on with it.
  • You will ideally be:
  • Experienced within a private household, yacht, chalet or luxury hospitality environment.
  • An excellent all-rounder who enjoys variety rather than being restricted to one particular area.
  • Confident with family-style cooking and food preparation.
  • Highly organised with a real flair for wardrobe management, presentation and organisation.
  • Warm, personable and comfortable welcoming and looking after guests.
  • Discreet and professional while also being approachable and down-to-earth.
  • Someone with a fantastic eye for detail who takes pride in creating a beautifully presented home.
  • Active and happy working in a role where you are on the go.
  • Flexible and willing to support the family as their requirements change.
  • Confident working independently while also being a strong team player.
  • A confident driver with a full driving licence – essential.

Above all, the family are looking for someone who genuinely enjoys becoming an important and trusted part of a household and who takes pride in making family life that little bit easier. This is a fantastic opportunity for someone looking for a long-term, varied and rewarding private household position where personality, initiative and versatility are just as important as experience.

Working days: Thursday to Monday

Days off: Tuesday and Wednesday

Salary: £40,000–£50,000 per annum, depending on experience

Accommodation: A lovely two-bedroom cottage is provided all utilities included

Location: Chipping Norton, Cotswolds

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